I Bought a Car!!!

Actually, I bought the car 40 days ago! The Dallas rain was non-stop and it didn’t allow me to get a car wash for some photos. Finally, the rain is gone and I got in a few photos! I hope you enjoy this girly car review that I wrote starting November as I went through the test driving and elimination process of vehicles šŸ™‚

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Apparently it’s Football Season

Football season is upon us! I’ve never been a huge football fan, but I’m down to watch some great horse/Budweiser commercials and the halftime show at a Super Bowl party (even though I missed it last year). #Oops! I do have one memory of an NFL game I attended. The family took a trip to watch the Dallas Cowboys play 10+ years ago at the old stadium. Who was playing? Who won? I couldn’t tell you because it was COLD and I fell asleep. So bad, I know! I’m much better these days and even try to dress according to team or theme. I’ve linked a few football tees for you below so you can feel included in your nearest football posse.

P.s. #WeDemBoyz

XO, Vivian

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My 9-5

Hi friends! I appreciate you taking my Instastories poll last week but more importantly, taking an interest in what it is I do from 9-5. After all the fuss with “Job 1” and “Job 2ā€ I thought it was only fair to provide you with an update of what Job 2 has turned out to be like.

What I Do:

I can hear your voices, ā€œVivian, what the heck is Job 2?!ā€ Iā€™m here to tell you that Iā€™m a speech therapist working at a skilled nursing facility (SNF [AKA nursing home]). Have you ever visited one before? My first experience with a SNF was with my grandmother. I occasionally visited her after class in high school. Iā€™d stare into her large, glossy eyes and tell her about myself, remind her who I was, and talk about my dad to her. Those were my last memories of her but they were all pleasant. Maybe because she seemed to be taken care of during her time at the home. When I did visit, there was no dilly dallying. The SNF is no place to be for a high schooler, but even then when I knew nothing about the staff, I appreciated what they did for my grandma.
Several years later, here I am walking into a SNF on a daily basis and I love it! Most people think of speech therapists as the ones who help their kids with their /s/ and /r/ sounds, which is very true, but families of residents have other concerns when their loved ones are living long term in a SNF. As a speech therapist in this setting, I see residents with dementia, Parkinsonā€™s disease, Huntingtonā€™s disease, cerebral palsy, cerebrovascular accidents, and several other diagnoses. The patients vary in severity and as you can imagine, goals differ from person to person.

Most of my patients work hard for me but there are a few that sigh and roll their eyes when I knock on their door. On a day like that, Iā€™ve quickly learned that a cup of coffee can fix anyones problems at least momentarily. But like I said, the majority are happy to see me and I, in return, am happy to see them. Sometimes therapists (speech, occupational, physical) are the only ones that visit the residents for days or weeks, so itā€™s important to greet them with a positive attitude. Luckily for all involved, my baseline personality is Ā bright and carefree!

How Iā€™m Adjusting:

The first week work experience itself was good. I learned a lot and was slightly overwhelmed by all the things to remember for later times but I managed. However, Iā€™m struggling with my new life schedule. I continue to go to sleep at 1:30-2:00am and have no clue how to stop when I enjoy my personal time to wind down after midnight. My goal is to be at work between 7:15-8:00am, but itā€™s been more like 7:45-8:30am. I hope to get this figured out within the next couple of weeks so I can be well rested for work but also for all my other errands and tasks.
Iā€™m happy to say that even with starting a new job in the middle of my 40 day yoga challenge, I have only missed one yoga practice. My sleep schedule may be off, but Iā€™ve been a dedicated yogi throughout this major change and for that I am proud. Another win? Iā€™ve been making healthy choices at lunchtime when Iā€™m surrounded by all the yummy foods! Itā€™s the little things in life, right?
I hope you all enjoyed reading this post and learning a little more about what I do. Feel free to leave me advice on how to go to bed on time šŸ™‚
XO, Vivian
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Graduation + The Job Offer

Finally, Prashi makes an appearance! We did long distance for a year while I lived in Kingsville for graduate school.

My big sisters Sandy and Angie, and my Mom.

My best friends Iliana and Grace. I wouldn’t have survived small town living without their friendship!

Guess who accepted a job offer?! Yes, I did! Before we get to that part, let’s rewind to last month.

It has been one month since graduation. Where does the time even go?! I could lie and say that I’ve been bored out of my mind, or that I’ve been hunched over on my laptop all day job hunting on indeed, but that is far far from the truth. In all honesty, I have had the best month ever!

If you follow me on Instagram, you know that I’ve taken up yoga. It is now a huge part of my life and practicing has jumped up on my list of priorities. I even started a 40 day yoga program yesterday! Updates to come on that later. I’ve also invested more time into the blog (hence the new logo!), which I love so much. It’s been nice getting to take photos, edit, and plan. Part of blogging involves attending events, and I’m lucky to have had extra time in the evening to get ready and join other bloggers at some super fun events! With all this free time, you know I had to book myself a vacation, right? My sister planned out most details of an Alaskan cruise for our family of 9. It was the biggest family trip we have ever had and one that I will remember for the rest of my life. A separate post on the cruise coming soon!

It’s true what they say, all good things must come to an end, and as you can tell, it’s been a fantastic month! But in between all that fun, I did have an interview here and there. I kept you updated through my instastories with some of my job hunt. I filled you in on “Job 1” and “Job 2.” I failed to mention that I had already accepted an offer from a different company before Job 1 or Job 2 came in the picture, which we will call “Job 00.” So here I am, a recent graduate with not one, not two, but THREE jobs to seriously consider. I’ll go ahead and say it in case you’re thinking it. I’m so lucky!!! Thank you mom for putting me through graduate school. These opportunities would not have come without her patience or support!

After accepting Job 00, I heard back from Job 1 and Job 2 and I continued to interview for both while I completed paperwork for Job 00. Job 1 offered me a position that was wonderful! I was so so happy and nearly ready to accept, until I interviewed at Job 2. Job 1 needed to know ASAP if I could or couldn’t accept, so I had to decline the offer. I went through three rounds of interviewing for Job 2, which I really really wanted. Each interview was great! Today I accepted an offer from Job 2 in the setting of my dreams and my heart is so full! Of course, I had to let Job 00 know that I would no longer be able to accept their offer.

If you followed along, I hope you enjoyed the ending to this story. It was definitely a happy one!

XO, Vivian

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One Year Blogiversary Bloopers!

Too cold to caption this. It was 30 degrees and I could see my breath!

“Oh you’re taking a picture? Let me hop in real quick.” – Bahamian lady

“I’ll give you side eye”

“Come here. Let me see the pic!”

“Rapunzel who?”

Mid-hair whip obviously.

“Settle down now”

Sexy/ flirting-with-the-camera eyes.

This is just bad šŸ˜‚

“3… 2… I wasn’t ready!”

I renewed my hosting service with Blue Host about a month ago and it hit me… I was about to hit the ONE YEAR mark! There was a decision to be made – continue blogging or quit?

Without a doubt in my mind, I knew I had to keep going. There are at least a dozen reasons for me to stop blogging. Among them that it’s too time consuming or my growth is too slow. You know what though? I’m a patient person! I have so much life to live and I’ll side hustle if I want to.

Thank you ALL for your support over the past year! Your likes, comments, and direct messages have made my first year of blogging incredibly worth while. Here’s to my second year of blogging!

Leave me a comment and let me know what content you’d like to see on A Chance of Charm!

XO, Vivian

 

 

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Polka Dot Dresses & Phone Cases

Back at it again with CaseApp because this blog post from January was a hit! When I find a high quality product I love I tend to stick with it for a while. My phone case obsession is no exception (oh hey, that rhymed!).

CaseApp offers custom case designs for iPads, PC laptops, Samsung phones, and basically any device you can think of that you thought CaseApp wouldn’t think of. My phone is with me all the time so I thought I’d get the most bang for my buck by selecting a couple of cases for my iPhone. In my last collaboration with CaseApp I designed a custom phone case for myself. It was beautiful and simple! You can check that out here. I wanted to create another custom case this time around, but I decided to go a different route and selected cases that were premade.

My final selections were this abstract blush case and this confetti dots case in a matte finish. The abstract blush one is perfect for finishing off the summer season but could still be worn in the fall since pink is basically a neutral šŸ™‚ My colorful dots case is still bright and girly, but reminds me so much of the fall season with it’s pretty orange and mustard yellows. And just like that, my phone case situation is all taken care of for the rest of the season!

Get 20% off a custom designed case of your own with promo code ACHANCEOF20 on caseapp.com. Don’t forget to show me what you create!

XO, Vivian

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My Invisalign Experience

Before (Left), After (Right). Lighting is different in these photos, sorry!

Why I got Orthodontic Treatment

Thereā€™s a picture somewhere of 14 year old me carrying my niece for the first time. It was a photo I was supposed to cherish and keep forever, but instead it was the first time I noticed something wrong with my smile. I couldnā€™t put my finger on it, but I knew I didnā€™t like it. Many, many photos later (and a trip to the dentist), I learned that I had a crossbite on my left side. For the next 10 years I insisted photos of me be taken on my right side, or what I called my ā€œgood side.ā€

How I Found the Best Orthodontist

Finding a good orthodontist in Dallas was easy, but I didnā€™t want to settle for good. Luckily for me, I live in a big city and my options were endless. I chose 3 orthodontists to consult with. Let me note that none of their offices were convenient locations for me. But I already knew if I wanted excellence, it probably wouldnā€™t be around the corner from home or work. That being said, I traveled to McKinney (1), Downtown Dallas (2), and Richardson (3) for these consultations. You can skip reading this part, but each is summed up:

1) This one was a woman. According to her, there were all sorts of things wrong with my teeth. Braces were my only option. Side note, IĀ quickly learned I wasnā€™t just looking forĀ orthodontic treatment, but I was looking someone I was compatible with. I really wanted to like this woman, but there were pictures of her volunteer work everywhere. Before she came in to see me, I had to watch a 5 minute video about howĀ wonderful she was. I. Couldnā€™t. Stand. it. Price: $9,000

2 ) This man said I could have braces or Invisalign, but that I would 100% need a surgery to break the roof of my mouth (it has a name, I swear). It sounded so painful just listening to him! Then, Iā€™d need a palatal expander on the roof of my mouth. Totally not down for this. Also didnā€™t like how he didnā€™t just tell me what I needed, he was going to let me decide if I wanted braces or Invisalign. Price: $ 5,000 +Ā unknown cost of surgery

3 ) Finally, I saw Dr. Crosby. He told me about himself and his experience working with cases like mine. What I really liked was that he pulled up two before/afters of patients with crossbites that he had treated. Ultimately, I chose him because he seemed the most confident in his ability to straighten my teeth. He seemed excited to get started, and Iā€™m so glad I picked him! However, I will say that he sees so many people that he may not remember you very well. It didnā€™t matter to me though, because he was so nice and always made a full-hearted effort to connect with me. Price: $5,500

Invisalign providers are assigned to a ā€œlevelā€ based on their experience. From least to most experience, they are: Preferred Provider, Premier Provider, Elite Provider, and Top 1% Provider. To be a Top 1% Provider means to have treated at least 800 patients with at least 100 new patients every 6 months (Holy cow, that’s a lot!).Ā Dr. Crosby is a Top 1% Provider and knowing how much experience he had put me at ease when I felt uneasy with my treatment. If youā€™re looking into Invisalign, I suggest doing a little more research in the differences between providerā€™s levels.

Invisalign Treatment

My teeth were scanned using the iTero Digital Scanner; a fancy piece of equipment that provided my Orthodontist with a 3D digital image of my teeth. Then, my digital images were sent off to the Invisalign company who actually make the trays. The trays came in 2 weeks later at Dr. Crosbyā€™s office and I saw him again to pick them up. Initially I would meet with Dr. Crosby every 2 weeks. He would check my progress, give me a new set of trays, and send me off. By the end of treatment, I was seeing him less than every 6 weeks. It was easy!

Results

My initial set of Invisalign trays were a set of 24, but this number varies from person to person. I finished all 24 and I Ā could have stopped my treatment there but I didnā€™t. Dr. Crosby thought my smile looked great, ā€œbroader, more symmetricalā€ if Iā€™m using his words. I wasnā€™t completely happy with my teeth yet, so my teeth were scanned again with the iTero scanner. The second set of trays I received, called ā€œrefinements,ā€ was less than 24 trays and was easier to wear with me switching them out every 5 days instead of every 2 weeks the way I had at the start of treatment. Was the second set of trays worth the wait? Yes! I am so happy with my final results!

Invisalign Pros
  • I became a pro at flossing!!! TMI but I used to be lazy and only floss once or twice a week. I know, I used to be terrible! Now I floss on the daily and twice a day if I have time in the morning.
  • Ā I could eat anything I wanted! Iā€™m not a big gum or popcorn chewer, but I know youā€™re not supposed to have those with braces. I like the general feeling of being able to see my teeth and clean them to the best of my ability without a wire across my teeth.
  • The Invisalign diet is a real thing!!! Iā€™d floss and brush after dinner and pop my trays back in. Ice cream at 9pm? A piece of chocolate at 10:30 pm? No, not happening because Iā€™m lazy and not about to brush all over again.
  • My retainer could also be used to whiten my teeth by adding a whitening treatment to my trays. When I was 18 I had trays made to whiten my teeth and used whitening gel in syringes every night. I was young and the service was sponsored so I canā€™t say how much it was exactly, but I believe it was $400. Now, I can ask my orthodontist for the teeth bleaching solution at anytime and not have to worry about the cost of creating well fitted trays.
Invisalign Cons
  • The first 3 days wearing trays are MISERABLE. I cried because my teeth were in so much pain. I didnā€™t think I would make it past the first few days but I did somehow.
  • The feeling of being sore every time I popped in a new set of trays really sucked. Dr. Crosby told me to put them in at night so I would feel the pain less. I did, but not too sure how much of a difference that made.
  • Having the trays in 22 hours a day isnā€™t fun. You forget how much snacking you do and snacking becomes less fun. I once went to the mall and grabbed a sample of something out of habit. I instinctively tossed the sample sized bite in my mouth with my trays on!!! It was a gross feeling and I never made that mistake again.
  • Youā€™re supposed to brush and floss after every meal or after every snack, which is at least 3 times a day for the average person. I did this for the first 3 weeks and gave up. Carrying around paste and a brush was inconvenient and I honestly just didnā€™t feel like doing it sometimes. I just made sure to clean my trays and teeth very well at night and in the mornings.

Ok, that was a long one! Did I miss any pros or cons? Leave a comment and let me know about your experience with Invisalign or braces!

XO, Vivian

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